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Sometimes, I wish I had a girl friend.
I mean, I have a girlfriend but I want a girl friend.
I miss having that person that I can talk to about anything.
Not that I can't talk about everything with my own GF.
It's a bit hard for me to get this feeling out into words.

Let me start over...

I want a girl best friend.
I would like to scroll down my phone,
and be about to call up a girl who would be down,
to kick it with at 2 or 3 in the morning.
Yesterday, I hung out with Oai and Chung at 3 in the morning.
And I realized how tired I was,
and how much inertia it took to get ready to go out.
But I did.
And I did it because I wanted to hang out with them,
or be with them to talk or just hang out and do nothing.
It was quite fun.
Anyways, I want something like that.
A best friend who is willing to push stuff aside,
and make time for me whenever.
We don't have to hang out much,
or flirt much,
or crush on each other.
I have a girl who has the title of "best friend"
but it's really only the title.
Besides that, I can't honestly say she is a close friend.

Ok bye.

My friend Winnie told me about a month ago her opinions about close friends of the opposite sex. She feels that in order for 2 people to be hella good friends, like close friends, at least one of them have to like the other person at some point in time. Her argument was that two people could be best friends and nothing more because they know that things will never work out if they got together.

I can completely see where she is coming from. And it does make a lot of sense. But I then said to her... "So in order for us to be good friends, one of us would have to like the other at some point?" Now think about someone specific who is an acquaintance and you know they're a really cool person and imagine you HAVE to like them before you can become good friends. If you look at that perspective, Winnie's point doesn't make sense.

Henry said that the girls he considers good friends with him now, he liked at one point.
And as for me, it's been a while since I had a girl best friend.
Like a fooreeal one.
The last one was Marie,
but we all know what eventually happened.
And I can't think of a personal situation that proves Winnie wrong.
Just a thought.