So I'm sitting here at a quarter past 3 (am, that is) just sipping Blue Moon, Winter Abbey Ale and thinking about a few things that has been running through my head lately.
I really, really hate seeing girls cry. It bothers me when one of my friends are crying and every time you hang out with them, they don't have that usual smile on their face. It hurts me to see them go through problems in their life that I do not have control over. What's worse is if they're cute :(
It's weird how some relationships turn out. Take a look at me and my relationship with Kim K. We don't speak to each other and I am 99% over her. I browse through my private blog entries I wrote about her and I can hardly believe the sentences that came out of my mouth. I told my friend that was going through some problems with her relationship, and it made me realize that a lot of girls are stuck with a guy who is perfect for them in every way except one. The thing that he isn't good at is actually the one of the most important thing a guy should be good at in a relationship. No one is perfect but choose a guy/girl who's bad trait is something you don't care as much about.
The past few days have been cold, but this morning is probably the coldest its been for a while. It kinda reminds me of how cold Japan is.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Monday, November 1, 2010
Day 3: Eight ways to win my heart
1. If you have a really nice smile, you automatically attract me more than those that don't. I'm talking about smiles that are/look truly genuine. Those kinds of smiles let me know so much about you. That's the reason why I'm in love with Rachel McAdams after watching Wedding Crashers and Mila Kunis after watching Forgetting Sarah Marshall.
2. If you don't mind getting a little dirty. I like girly girls, but something about a girl who isn't TOO afraid of picking up a random bug or a girl who wants to help change a spare tire when it blows out instead of sitting in the car makes me like them. I guess because I stereotype girls in a way that when I find one that breaks the stereotype, I find them unique.
3. Food is key to any man's heart. Randomly show up at my doorstep with food and no matter how much homework/chores I have to do at home, I will sit and eat with you. Share food with me. Ask me if I wanna eat. Invite me over for dinner. Randomly know that I'm starving and save your Maggiano's leftover for me. Cook me food even if you can't cook, and I'll still eat it.
4. I've always liked when girls have little siblings, cousins, nieces, and nephews to take care of. Even if you might not necessarily like kids, showing me that you can take care of one makes me feel like...damn, you're gonna be my baby's mama.
5. Please be active. Or at least healthy. I don't need a girlfriend that is skinny or has that model body. If you are healthy/active, you're in good enough shape for me. I just don't like hearing when girls complain about how fat they are (even if they're not), yet you see them binging on junk food.
6. Don't talk too much shit for no reason. Guys talk shit. Girls talk shit/gossip. I talk shit. But there's a difference between talking shit when there is and isn't a valid reason to. When a stranger walks by you and he/she isn't the best looking person, don't tell me that. Be a nice person and keep bad thoughts to yourself.
7. I am an optimistic person. I try to stay positive no matter what. It's a nice change of pace finding someone like me in that sense.
8. If you are independent, you tell me that you can handle yourself and you have the ability to handle me. I guess, it tells me that you can take care of someone because you are already taking care of yourself well. Shit, this is hard to explain. Let me put this in a question format...How do you love someone else if you can't love yourself?
2. If you don't mind getting a little dirty. I like girly girls, but something about a girl who isn't TOO afraid of picking up a random bug or a girl who wants to help change a spare tire when it blows out instead of sitting in the car makes me like them. I guess because I stereotype girls in a way that when I find one that breaks the stereotype, I find them unique.
3. Food is key to any man's heart. Randomly show up at my doorstep with food and no matter how much homework/chores I have to do at home, I will sit and eat with you. Share food with me. Ask me if I wanna eat. Invite me over for dinner. Randomly know that I'm starving and save your Maggiano's leftover for me. Cook me food even if you can't cook, and I'll still eat it.
4. I've always liked when girls have little siblings, cousins, nieces, and nephews to take care of. Even if you might not necessarily like kids, showing me that you can take care of one makes me feel like...damn, you're gonna be my baby's mama.
5. Please be active. Or at least healthy. I don't need a girlfriend that is skinny or has that model body. If you are healthy/active, you're in good enough shape for me. I just don't like hearing when girls complain about how fat they are (even if they're not), yet you see them binging on junk food.
6. Don't talk too much shit for no reason. Guys talk shit. Girls talk shit/gossip. I talk shit. But there's a difference between talking shit when there is and isn't a valid reason to. When a stranger walks by you and he/she isn't the best looking person, don't tell me that. Be a nice person and keep bad thoughts to yourself.
7. I am an optimistic person. I try to stay positive no matter what. It's a nice change of pace finding someone like me in that sense.
8. If you are independent, you tell me that you can handle yourself and you have the ability to handle me. I guess, it tells me that you can take care of someone because you are already taking care of yourself well. Shit, this is hard to explain. Let me put this in a question format...How do you love someone else if you can't love yourself?
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